Posted by PM80 on April 2, 2005, at 10:13:26
In reply to Re: Something terrible » sunny10, posted by Susan47 on April 1, 2005, at 21:12:03
After reading Sunny's last post, I looked at the psych board. And I got the picture. I felt sad so with you. Your words contain so much feeling. I do not exactly know what you are going through, but I can understand pain.
> I guess you'd have to meet this guy yourself, you know what I mean, to understand how cool and in control he really is.
Most people who are "cool and in control" are covering up just how out of control they feel about something. Simply choosing not to deal with something is a way of feeling in control.
>Anyway none of it matters now.
This statement concerns me. Sunny is right about you. You should read what she wrote last because it is what I see in you, too. You are NOT the problem. You are NOT all wrong. You are NOT pathetic. He is NOT perfection.
You are hurting and that is OK. You opened yourself up enough to get hurt, to be exposed. That makes you wonderfully human.
You ARE beautiful. You ARE worthwhile. I put no stipulations on these statements.
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