Posted by Damos on April 18, 2006, at 0:50:53
In reply to Re: Boundaries with Mothers » cricket, posted by special_k on April 17, 2006, at 0:41:33
Sorry to interrupt but I was reading something the other day by Dr Ross the guy who came up with the 'Trauma Model'. He was talking about DID and PTSD and how by definition you can't have PTSD without a specific trauma event. But what was really interesting was that he said;
"But there is another, deeper level of work in which the basic feelings are not fear, anxiety, terror and hyperarousal states. Instead, the feelings are ones of sadness, loss, and grief. This deeper level of grief resolution tends not to be event-specific. It is more about the gestalt of childhood and the failure of parents to bond, nurture and be present, than it is about traumatic events."
Just thought that kinda fitted with what you guys have been expressing and some of what special said over on write.
Sorry to interrupt
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