Posted by Theta99 on August 22, 2005, at 0:45:31
In reply to Re: Wife wants a divorce, posted by BornAgainLover on August 6, 2005, at 3:30:02
The fact that you continued to act out after having said you would not any longer, indicates that you might have a bit more serious of a problem then you might think.
I would suggest picking up a copy of Patrick Carnes' "Don't Call it Love - Recovery from Sexual Addiction". Read it, see if you identify with any parts of it. And if you think you do, look for a local 12 Step program in your area like SAA or SLAA.
To simply say "I won't do it anymore" probably isn't going to work. Regardless of whether your marraige works out or not, you need to look for the cause of your seemingly compulsive behavior.
Goodluck
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