Posted by crazy teresa on August 5, 2005, at 17:13:45
In reply to Wife wants a divorce, posted by BornAgainLover on August 5, 2005, at 4:24:56
If you want to rebuild your marriage, it has to be on the foundation of honesty, not on empty promises. Since in this case, you need to be understood (and maybe even helped to understand yourself) and not judged, I would suggest a marriage counselor over counseling with your church. There are organizations which specialize counseling individuals addicted to pornography, perhaps they could recommend someone in your area.
Do you realize how hard it will be to convince your wife? I'm in no way trying to encourage you to give up, just pointing out to you that there may be things you consider unreasonable that she could require from you to be able to believe you (disconnecting the internet, finding a job that does not involve travel, etc.)
I sincerly admire that you'd like to fix things.
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