Posted by alexandra_k on July 19, 2005, at 1:35:59 [reposted on July 22, 2005, at 0:57:51 | original URL]
In reply to husbands and sex **possible trigger**, posted by B2chica on July 18, 2005, at 9:25:33
Cringe.
I used to chat with one of my friends about sex. She didn't like it because it hurt her. Her husband had quite a high drive. Because he was so keen (not having had any for a while) she would hurt more and then be more reluctant to do it again which would mean a long while before next time so he was very keen etc etc...It can become a bit of a circle.
Is there any way that you could do things more on your terms rather than his terms? I mean... By the sounds of it he is going to enjoy it any way, so it is more about making it more comfortable and pleasant for you. If you enjoy it more then you might be happy enough to do it more often and then he is happier and you are happier and then there could be a more positive circle.
cringe about the stripping. really. i've done the odd thing like that too. and always felt really horrible afterwards. :-(
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