Posted by Jazzed on July 18, 2005, at 13:13:57 [reposted on July 22, 2005, at 0:57:51 | original URL]
In reply to husbands and sex **possible trigger**, posted by B2chica on July 18, 2005, at 9:25:33
Wow, B2, I'm so so sorry! This does really sound awful. Does your hubby know that sometimes you envision your attacker, and that the stripping makes you feel really low? I don't have any advice for you, but I'm thinking about you, and hoping you can get these images out of your mind.
How long have you been married? I was also raped when I was in high school, and it took me a long time to not feel sex was dirty, a longer time to be okay with it, and even longer to get to where I am now with sex. I hope you get better with all of this too.
What about something like EMDR? Happy had a good experience with that.
(((hugs))))
Jazzy
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