Posted by sunny10 on May 6, 2005, at 10:08:27
In reply to Re: rant.. » alesta, posted by AdaGrace on May 6, 2005, at 8:58:47
want?!?!?!
The ones I have been involved with have been hardwired to "be the best" "have the best", "always be right", and always "be free to make all decisions".
They have lied even more to themselves than they do to me, usually...take my SO for instance...
In order to work things out with me, it is not enough that he apologized and said all of the right things. Unless he can admit to a third party (therapist) that he needs to learn how to work through his feelings and not bury them in chemical substances and DO the WORK to actually learn HOW, I can't trust his words.
I've trusted them before...
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