Posted by sunnydays on February 20, 2008, at 21:21:04
In reply to Re: therapy lately, posted by antigua3 on February 20, 2008, at 19:59:45
> If you really want the hug, think about how you would feel if he said no, and what would be acceptable for you to get if you can't have that.
**** I know, that's the thing. I'm sure he would talk to me a whole lot afterwards and be very gentle and soft and everything. Maybe I could bring it up. I don't know.
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> Just think it all the way through--not exactly like putting up your guard, but exploring with him what "No" really means to you.
> good luck,
> antigua***** Yeah, that's why I was thinking of asking it hypothetically - it might feel less like a personal rejection. And I'm sure we'd explore it a lot afterwards. Thanks for responding.
sunnydays
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