Posted by lovelorn on December 10, 2007, at 14:54:14
In reply to Re:being split, posted by Bodhisattva on December 10, 2007, at 10:55:04
>The conflict within is still a conflict. And our fundamental reaction is either to retreat from the opposition or to clench our fists in preparation for the ensuing battle. The difference, is the two opposing forces in the inner conflict do not fatigue. Therefore, you can never outrun or outfight as a solution to these problems.
Just wanted to say this is very well said as it seems very much like those are the two options : outrun or outfight. You get awfully tired of both. It makes perfect sense.
>Your T remains at your side, neither fighting or fleeing. Being your support to carry you through. Follow that example. You and your T will eventually find the means in which your "peeps" can coexist.
Also well said; for my own self, I think it has been in large part the example of my T remaining at my side that I am better able to control my internal 'peep'/conflict as it were, with a part of me being that role for my own self and remaining at my side through whatever it is I need to experience/put myself through and not feel as if no one is there and that somehow I am lost or will get lost forever going where I need to go.
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