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Re:being split » rskontos

Posted by muffled on December 10, 2007, at 11:02:14

In reply to Re:being split, posted by rskontos on December 10, 2007, at 8:25:41

> Muffled, I was thinking that this angry kid is probably trying to also hurt the other kids inside too. No I don't think you should try and make them go.

*sigh. I just get so tired of this...It was so great when I finally realized what was going on, everything started to make sense and it was wonderful. But they are peeps, and they are themselves, and i got to deal with these individuals, that live in this ADULT body, and should be adult, but they are NOT, and it just makes me crazy trying to keep in my head that they KIDS and I HAVE to relate to them as such or it doesn't work, they get upset.

>you should let T help and if that is only possible with letting T see her then let her.

*sigh. I am so freaked. Mega freaked to try and do this :-(
I scared what if she has tears????????????? We NOT allowed that. Then there will be very great anger cuz we done wrong I fear. But maybe not. We DID say a bit bout the pic to T, and there was not great freak out. There was nothing, so it was OK. So mebbe it will be OK.

> And don't think i suggest this easily cuz I know how hard they are to let out.

* It IS hard.

>If we keep them inside they will always bother us like little creepy ghosts inside our heads that never go away and play hide/seek with our minds. Once we let them out they can't hide so well or be so sneeky or be so secretive so see this is the only way to help ourselves.

*yeah, funny you should say ghosts, I often refer to it as being haunted.

>I think only T's knows for sure and maybe they dont always know know but hey they sure know more than us!!!!!!!!!

*yeah, I tend to doubt my T. But then I look back and she been pretty clever. She seems to be pretty gifted T wise. I think this peeps stuff is a stretch for her, but she is willing to consult w/another T as needed. I think its good for her to learn this stuff cuz then she can help others too.

> So I try it and I AM going to try again to let anyone out.

**Good for Rsk. I think we BOTH are working very hard. And our T's too. Its alotta work.

> You are being really brave. I am proud of you. rk

*You too Rsk, you too. Thank-you.
Sometimes it just makes me so sad that we goto do all this stuff :-(

 

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