Posted by rskontos on December 10, 2007, at 16:55:58
In reply to Re:being split, posted by Bodhisattva on December 10, 2007, at 10:55:04
Bodhisaatva,
>>The conflict within is still a conflict. And our fundamental reaction is either to retreat from the opposition or to clench our fists in preparation for the ensuing battle. The difference, is the two opposing forces in the inner conflict do not fatigue. Therefore, you can never outrun or outfight as a solution to these problems.
I have spent so much time trying to do this so I must say first. Wow, you have really summed it up well. And you are so right. I have tried to run from all these voices. Last night they got so loud I tried to cover my ears as if that would help. LOL. Like they aren't inside my head but you try anything because I wanted to watch tv and damned if I know what they wanted to do so the pitch reached an unbelieveable level. I looked over to see if the dogs could hear it or anyone else in the other rooms. They couldn't. Right now it is a dull roar I am used to. So now I am trying to invite a sitdown at a peace table so that we can deflate this conflict but this is hard.
>>Your T remains at your side, neither fighting or fleeing. Being your support to carry you through. Follow that example. You and your T will eventually find the means in which your "peeps" can coexist. >>
It is hard because not everyone agrees with this. Not all peeps like T. They think she lies like all adults. So it is hard. But I keep trying well I say I do. I think I do. And T knows to keep trying.
Oh yeah, welcome in case I haven't meet ya yet. rsk
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