Posted by rskontos on December 10, 2007, at 17:03:27
In reply to Re:being split, posted by lovelorn on December 10, 2007, at 11:46:34
>>Yes. I was going to mention have you ever seen a kid not get what it wants! It will scream and fuss and cry and "disrupt" as much as it can until gets soothed somehow. Unfortunately, if that kid gets abused or suffers a trauma, it will eventually go quiet with all its pain. When that happens to us, it goes away but is not forgotten and will come back.>>
**This is so true Lovelorn. ONe of mine did this at Therapy and boy was I embarassed. I usually go away when I switch but this day I stayed kinda like hovering in a corner to watch and hear but couldn't do anything like tell her to stop that. Afterwards I was so embarrassed I cried fo r hours at hours and for days later. Each time I typed it here or read posts. It upset me even though I knew I needed to show my peeps to my T. ( I have been the one to use this but not the author of the phrase. I am drawing a blank on that maybe I will remember) T thought we made great progress that day I looked at her like she had horns and wings. Too many parts of me didn't like that day. I still dont know like muffled how to let them out and I am suppose to be working on control to do that. My Therapy homework. But I am not going to get a passing grade this week.
I found your posts very interesting and helpful. Thanks for sharing. rsk
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