Posted by seldomseen on October 18, 2007, at 19:03:38
In reply to Makes sense...., posted by DAisym on October 18, 2007, at 13:12:01
There are volumes of scientific literature indicating that humans are physiologically hard-wired for touch.
Physical touch can induce the release of oxytocin - a natural opiate and "bonding" hormone. A 20 second hug can also lower our blood pressure and heart rate. There can be substantial psychological effects as well - including increased self-esteem and overall wellbeing.
However, humans are so variable and although the preponderance of people are truly physiologically responsive to the touch stimulus, it is entire feasible and very likely that there are some of us that just don't respond. I mean, there are people out there that are absolutely resistant to aspirin, why aren't there those that are resistant to touch on a physiological level. They may just not get the "kick" from it that others do.
I think if there are times that you want a hug, then the resistance might be at a psychological level and not a physical one, and that might be something to explore and work on (I would highly recommend massage therapy). If you just are flatlined when it comes to touch - then that is just who you are.
Just my take.
Seldom.
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