Posted by antigua3 on October 19, 2007, at 8:51:10
In reply to Re: My take on this - for what it's worth. » DAisym, posted by seldomseen on October 19, 2007, at 2:28:47
I've been thinking about this a little because touch has been important in my life.
for example, I've had a massage, but never would again.Too triggering.
also, this may sound funny, but I really don't like anyone touching my hair. I have a huge fear of getting my hair cut because of all the touching. I've worked through most of it because I always go to the same person, so I've gotten used to her. But, for me, my hair played a big role in my csa. It became a symbol of the csa because semen would end up in my hair. I got a huge knot that nobody could get out and it was a physical representation of everything that was wrong, and I wondered why my mother couldn't see it! A family friend got the knot out and my hair was cut short just before kindergarten. It was a huge releif, but I still don't like anyone touching my hair, but I've learned to tolerate it.
I also hate, hate, when people stand too close to me in line when I'm shopping. It drives me up a wall.
antigua
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