Re: I'm a snuggler -- but don't touch me... » Daisym

Posted by RealMe on October 20, 2007, at 15:21:54

In reply to Re: I'm a snuggler -- but don't touch me..., posted by Daisym on October 20, 2007, at 12:20:48

I suppose it could mean that too, what might I do. I don't know. I never thought of that before. All I know is that all the abuse, sexual, physical, and mental has left me feeling very much like keep your distance. It is hard for me to hug people, even here, and it does not mean I don't care. I just feel funny. Plus my husband's family are huggers when you meet, as a greeting, and it seems to fake. I do it, but I hate it. Problem for me is that closeness gets equated with sex, and so like with my T, I get scared of emotional closeness even because then the sexual stuff comes up and spoils it all. Damn.
RealMe

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My take on this - for what it's worth. seldomseen 10/18/07
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Re: Touch maybe csa trigger** DAisym 10/19/07
Re: I'm a snuggler -- but don't touch me... RealMe 10/20/07
Re: I'm a snuggler -- but don't touch me... Daisym 10/20/07
Re: I'm a snuggler -- but don't touch me... rskontos 10/20/07
Re: I'm a snuggler -- but don't touch me... » Daisym RealMe 10/20/07
Re: Snuggler or non-toucher? antigua3 10/21/07
Re: Snuggler or non-toucher? » antigua3 RealMe 10/21/07

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