Posted by gazo on May 9, 2007, at 8:56:50
In reply to out of it, posted by ElaineM on May 8, 2007, at 19:53:18
i am so sorry... for your problems now, for your assault and for not knowing you. (((elaine)))
i think the suggestions made are good ones.. but can i suggest something else?
can you at least tell the male T that there were things you confided in the female T that you just cannot talk about with him, not yet and maybe not ever? Can you tell him it is just not in your abilities? Ask him to communicate with the female T that she not disclose things you had agreed not to?
my T has told me that any communications from others that i don't want him to read he will just shred instantly. Maybe your male T will respect your wishes to not have certain topics be part of your relationship right now. Surely he would know how to handle that. He might then have some idea what the issues might involve but i am sure he would respect your boundaries about that.
just a thought..
much love and peace
poster:gazo
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