Posted by wishingstar on May 8, 2007, at 16:39:19
In reply to Re: Crying. Help me. » ElaineM, posted by Racer on May 8, 2007, at 15:28:33
Oh Elaine... I'm so sorry.
((((((((Elaine))))))) safe hugs, but only if you want them.
I've been thinking about you over the last few weeks and wondering how you were doing. I'm so sorry to hear about this new problem with your ladyT. I really do hurt for you.. having been in similar situations myself, I know how absolutely get wrenching it feels. Like you'll never be able to pull yourself together again. Like it's just over. The pain is incredible, I'm sure.
I want to second racer's suggestion of emailing her back and saying "no, I dont understand. I thought we had an understanding, and this is very hurtful. please clarify". etc. It sounds like she has been a good T for you in the past and I hope she is able to handle this new situation better than she has so far for you.
I would guess very strongly that this isnt because of anything you did or didnt do. I really dont think it's about you personally at all, although I know that fact doesnt make it feel any better. I think she has probably started to worry about boundaries and professionalism and who knows what else, maybe triggered by something in her own life or something that happened with another client. You havent done anything wrong. I hope you can email her back and let her know how bad this feels so she has a chance to explain in more detail. You deserve at least that.
I know I'm not as good with words as some people on here are, but I'm really thinking of you and sending you all the good vibes I can. Feel free to babblemail me ANYtime, even if it's just to vent. Hang in there Elaine. I know it doesnt feel like it, but it will be ok. You'll be okay.
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