Posted by 10derHeart on May 13, 2005, at 21:17:46
In reply to Re: ask yourself this..., posted by Dinah on May 13, 2005, at 17:47:01
Thanks, Dinah, for somehow reading my mind - yet again. Because I care so very much about Pinkeye, and I am deeply disturbed by what she's written.
But, I am so triggered by this thread I haven't really been able to effectively post yet. I'll try a little bit now.
Pinkeye, I know you'll read this eventually....first, don't apologize for anything I'M feeling. I know you are so sweet and caring you'll worry first about me. I'm fine. In fact, I needed to find out if my own domestic abuse experiences years ago really were all dealt with or not. Now I know, so I can take this issue up with my T. sometime.
Second, I can only say to you that I've lived through this, and spent time in a women's shelter on 3 occasions. Unfortunately.
Just listen very carefully to what all your caring Babble friends are saying here. Just listen and think. I know it's scary and hard, but your life could depend on it.
Please, please be careful dear pinkeye. Accidents can happen when people are out of control and violent. So it really never matters what the intention was, after it's too late...
**The behaviors your husband is engaging in almost ALWAYS escalate. I mean over 90% of the time** :-(
I'll try to post more as soon as I can. I probably just need to calm down the rage a little bit first.
poster:10derHeart
thread:496916
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