Re: It's still there (are ya'll sick of this subject?) » Shortelise

Posted by messadivoce on March 19, 2005, at 17:18:17

In reply to Re: It's still there (are ya'll sick of this subject?) » messadivoce, posted by Shortelise on March 19, 2005, at 12:28:40

Well, that is a good question. I don't know that I have the answer. I guess I wonder, is it possible to remember all the good things about my relationship with him without feeling so sad? I grew and changed in huge ways with him, and I know I owe him a lot of my success.
On the other hand, I recognize that I am grieving something much bigger than him. I am grieving what I never got from my own father that I felt from my T, and missing that acceptance and affection because there's no replacement. When I terminated with him, I immediately turned around and thought, "Who's going to love me like that?"

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It's still there (are ya'll sick of this subject?) messadivoce 3/19/05
Of course not » messadivoce Dinah 3/19/05
Re: It's still there (are ya'll sick of this subject?) Susan47 3/19/05
Re: It's still there (are ya'll sick of this subject?) » messadivoce Shortelise 3/19/05
Re: Of course not » Dinah messadivoce 3/19/05
Re: It's still there (are ya'll sick of this subject?) » Shortelise messadivoce 3/19/05
Re: It's still there (are ya'll sick of this subject?) » messadivoce gardenergirl 3/19/05
Re: It's still there (are ya'll sick of this subject?) shrinking violet 3/19/05
Re: It's still there (are ya'll sick of this subject?) » messadivoce 10derHeart 3/19/05
And boy do I appreciate it! (nm) » 10derHeart gardenergirl 3/19/05
Re: It's still there (are ya'll sick of this subject?) » Susan47 messadivoce 3/20/05
Re: It's still there (are ya'll sick of this subject?) » messadivoce Susan47 3/20/05
I'm glad it's helpful. :-) (nm) » gardenergirl 10derHeart 3/20/05
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