Posted by Susan47 on August 22, 2004, at 10:24:20
In reply to Re: The real Dinah, posted by Pfinstegg on August 22, 2004, at 9:41:46
I can really understand your posts and your struggle, Dinah. I never was eloquent enough to be able to put my selves into the language you've expressed; you did that really well in the lst couple of days and don't beat yourself up for going back and forth and being insecure about what's best. I hope you work it out without hiding your real self, because I think if you go with the fake Dinah, although the world might be able to handle her and she gets what she wants (which is what, by the way, I don't think you ever did say. In your first post you said the fake Dinah gets what she wants. Which is what?) the real Dinah will suffer even more. She needs to come out and be accepted, not just by her T, but real people who're self-sufficient enough that they don't need Dinah to be all fake.
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