Posted by Elle2021 on February 14, 2004, at 2:18:44
In reply to Validation, posted by Rigby on February 12, 2004, at 21:05:26
>Do you guys ever feel like endless black holes in terms of needing validation?
Yes. Especially concerning my professors. I have actually taken to tayloring my papers to their likes and dislikes in an effort to up my chances for validation (pathetic isn't it?). I have to give myself a little credit though, because if it's something I disagree with I say so, but if I don't have an opinion, then... It works actually. But still, no matter how much validation I recieve, I have a huge craving for more. It's a craving that can't be satisfied. I guess I'm just really insecure that way. Maybe someday I won't need to be told I'm intelligent or pretty, I'll just know I'm good enough. That would be nice.
Elle
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