Posted by antigua on February 4, 2004, at 10:03:02
In reply to But but but.. » Racer, posted by Karen_kay on February 3, 2004, at 16:06:28
Funny thing. I just got back from therapy where we were discussing that I think I am a burden to other people if I let them in and share some of my secrets. I feel as if I'm placing a burden on them by telling them. My T tried to make me see how much of these thoughts were real and how much were a transference of my inadequate, shameful (you supply the adjective) feelings I had as a young girl. I see it as a burden, but other people don't she says. Told her I'd think about it.
Also, I'm with you on the girlfriends thing. My friends pour their heart out to me and I tell practically nothing. I don't think they care enough. For that matter, no one cares enough and why bother telling if I'm just going to get hurt?
You're on the right track, Karen, and I second whoever said to do this while you're young.
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