Posted by fallsfall on September 17, 2003, at 18:25:37
In reply to Less confused now., posted by kara lynne on September 17, 2003, at 17:11:55
Good for you. Stick to your guns. You've done a really good job of figuring this out. I'm proud of you.
I think a woman therapist might be a better bet for you. I just wrote up advice on finding a new therapist (http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/psycho/20030905/msgs/260173.html). It is NOT your fault. Your previous (and current?) therapists have behaved unethically. You did nothing wrong. Even if you had thrown yourself at them (which I don't think you did), it is their job to keep the boundaries. You need to be willing to KNOW that this guy has done the wrong thing. That knowledge will sustain you when you feel like you have screwed up (and you haven't).
Tuesday at 11. Gee, that was the time I used to see my old therapist. That was good for a hearty laugh!
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