Posted by Adia on September 6, 2003, at 12:22:00
In reply to Re: Please help..feeling really confused.. , posted by HannahW on September 5, 2003, at 17:13:52
Hi Hannah,
Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts and for writing to me. It really means more than I can say right now.
Maybe you are right that I am making assumptions that aren't necessarily true..Maybe she had reasons to think that therapy was too tough for me right now, I am just hoping that she will think about it and we will talk about it and find a way to work this out...I haven't heard from her yet..and I'm terrified of losing her :o(
I am trying to hang on , I've done all I could, I wrote her explaining and telling her I do need to talk with her...I just hope she replies to me...I still have faith in her and I do feel she wouldn't want to hurt me intentionally...Thank you for sharing with me, it really helps me...you've made me think of some possibilities I hadn't thought of..
Thank you again ...
will hang on somehow till I hear from her..
Adia.
> I think that stinks too. However, I think you're making some assumptions that aren't necessarily true. You keep blaming yourself and saying that your therapist thinks therapy isn't doing any good, when (according to what you said were her words) she didn't say that. It's possible that she observed your tears at your last session, and since you couldn't talk about it, she had to make assumptions about why you were crying. Since you hadn't ever had a flash-back in session before, she probably didn't realize that's what it was, and attributed it to something else instead. Maybe whatever that "something else" was in her head made her think that therapy was too hard.
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> Or, maybe you're right that she's trying to get a reaction from you, since she's done that before. I think it's crummy, but it's possible.
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> I'm glad you were able to communicate with her that you still wanted to see her in person, instead of just accepting it and giving up. That shows real strength and is a tribute to your trust for her. You weren't afraid that she'd call you back and say nasty things and that she never wanted to see you again.
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> I hope this works out for you. Let us know what happens.
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> Hannah
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