Posted by Dr. Bob on November 4, 2006, at 21:39:01
In reply to Re: please be civil, posted by Deneb on November 1, 2006, at 14:27:56
> Maybe I should have just written, "I feel frustrated" and not imply that anyone here led me to feel that way.
Thanks for working on this. The above would be one way, but I thought Lindenblüte's suggestions were good, too. Plus see:
http://www.crnhq.org/windskill4.html
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/admin/20040112/msgs/320097.html> Maybe it doesn't matter how I word things, if it can make a poster feel bad I shouldn't write it.
I do think wording matters, but unfortunately it doesn't guarantee that others won't feel bad.
Bob
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