Posted by Dr. Bob on November 1, 2006, at 7:55:41
In reply to (((((((Deneb))))))))), posted by zazenducky on October 31, 2006, at 15:12:33
> it feels like some people are invalidating my experience and minimizing my difficulties?
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> Deneb*> There are some posts here to you that you haven't even responded to
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> ElaineM> Are you looking for someone to hold your hand and say, "Oh, that's too bad?
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> Racer> When people choose to be unkind or unhelpful or seemingly to judge you or reject you, sometimes it helps to remember that it's probably because of their own problems not because of you.
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> zazenduckyPlease don't be sarcastic or post anything that could lead others to feel accused or put down.
But please don't take this personally, either, this doesn't mean I don't like you or think you're bad people.
If you or others have questions about this or about posting policies in general, or are interested in alternative ways of expressing yourself, please first see the FAQ:
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/faq.html#civil
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/faq.html#enforceFollow-ups regarding these issues should be redirected to Psycho-Babble Administration. They, as well as replies to the above posts, should of course themselves be civil.
Deneb, I'm sorry if you feel left out.
Thanks,
Bob
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