Posted by LlurpsieNoodle on July 30, 2007, at 13:49:20
In reply to Re: I think I've ruined any chances, posted by Phillipa on July 30, 2007, at 11:05:59
Hi CS,
there's a time for being honest, and "meet the parents" is a good time to come clean.This guy is the poison. Even though SD may end up defending him and her relationship in the short run, in the long run, she will probably take your statements and give them more than a passing thought.
You've cast a shadow over her marriage, and one that will make her doubt herself. This is far better than the alternative, which is to find out, years later that one has made the biggest mistake of one's life and lost years.
yes, you may be the stepmother, but you don't have to be the evil one. You're not speaking from a wish to destroy her happiness, but rather from a place where you want to support her
And your chemical situation has me deeply sympathetic. You need someone to bring you a warm fuzzy and tuck you in. too much sleep is awful, but maybe it's protecting you from something.
your friend,
-Ll
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