Posted by antigua3 on July 26, 2007, at 15:12:46
In reply to Quite a tangent from my thread above, posted by ClearSkies on July 26, 2007, at 14:52:36
I'd feel a bit defensive too. What are you supposed to do, sit by the sidelines and watch her die? You care enough and are separate enough from her that you can see things your husband can't, or mostly likely won't.
It's easy to make you the fall guy--it's called projection, right? Just feel strong in that you are doing the right thing.
I'm glad to have clear skies back.
take care,
antigua
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