Posted by scratchpad on June 19, 2007, at 7:38:56
In reply to not getting anxious or worked up about it? awesome (nm) » scratchpad, posted by zenhussy on June 4, 2007, at 18:56:02
I'm doing OK, but my DH is getting himself tied up in knots over this. Father's Day, oy vey. She had "nothing planned" and was going to spend all day with us. Good thing we didn't wait for her arrival. Her phone wasn't working, so we couldn't get in touch; and she showed up, drunk, at 8:30pm with her latest boyfriend whom she plays chauffeur for.
Her phone has been turned off. She got a bill for $300 and she judged that it was too high. So she isn't going to pay it.Zen, it's like watching a car wreck in slow motion. DH's heart is broken in two. I sit in the same room and try to remove myself emotionally. There's no point talking to someone who is drunk, just ask me. My obsessive thinking about her problems has subsided. What's left behind is a feeling of abject horror and pity.
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