Posted by Happyflower on May 24, 2007, at 12:12:18
In reply to Re: The stepdaughter story, contd » Happyflower, posted by scratchpad on May 24, 2007, at 12:03:00
It DOES hurt, and it does SUCK. I wouldnt' want to go through it again that is for sure. Okay, here is some disclosure from me. Do you feel somehow that when you see your DH ignoring the prolems with his own daughter, do you see that it can happen to you too? I think I did, and that is what made it so hard, becauase I also saw the child in me who was ignored too, and that sort of brings up all kinds of issues. My DH style is to put his head in the sand, and it is so hard to live with. I just want to shake the sh*t out of him sometimes to get him to do something for our marriage, for our life.
I guess we are going through some sh*t too in our lives, house problems, he has a new company he is working for who bought out his formal employer, so things don't feel very secure. Then add my sh*t to the mix, I can't seem to pull both of us up like I used to do because I am having trouble feeling up to doing anything. I want to hide too, but my T is trying to keep me from doing that. When is your next appointment with your T? Can they help, just a little for you?
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