Posted by Honore on January 27, 2007, at 13:58:04
In reply to Re: dating divorced men in pain, posted by jacs on January 27, 2007, at 11:25:15
Hi again, jacs.
In the aftermath of your sister's death, losses must be awful. I can't even imagine how devastating that must be. They're hard, anyway-- but when you've lost someone who meant so much, I can imagine (and know, in my own way, actually) that it's even more difficult to let go.
I'm extremely sorry that you lost her so soon. I wanted to say that, because I didn't yesterday.
Avoiding your bf, though, might prolong things, and not avoid the separation. Maybe you need to let things go slowly, though, despite the cost of continuing.
Sometimes talking things through helps lighten the burden. Maybe you could tell me a little more about yourself and other relationships--whether family or friends?
By the way, have you seen the social board? I think it's relatively new. Sometimes that can be fun-- nothing too heavy (well, sometimes)-- but anything. Maybe you'd enjoy it.
Honore
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