Posted by alexandra_k on December 3, 2005, at 18:16:34
In reply to Re: reverse objectification, posted by MichaelJr on December 3, 2005, at 4:46:30
> Girls I get with are never forced into it.
How do you know? Do you ask them?
>I will say that most of these girls have the choice to either be poor or work as a prostitute, which is sad. But by no means are they some type of SLAVE like many people think.
Yeah, I think you are right there.
But you do not know for a fact that the girls you have paid have not been forced into it - do you?
>If two adults agree to have sex for money, who cares?!People might care because it might ultimately be harmful for either one or the other or both parties.
> Western women think their pussies are frickin goldmines!
All women...
Or the women you have paid to be with?
You don't think that maybe... That attitude would be more prevalent in people who... Are being paid in virtue of having one? And if you generalise from that to ALL women... Then can't you see that you most probably are going to have some issues about women that are likely to interfeare with your having a genuine relationship with a woman who isn't just after your money or what you can offer her materially.
> Anyway...I look at it this way. Which is worse...me being alone and j*rking off, or at least getting laid albeit by a stranger?Do you hurt yourself when you j*rk off alone?
Do you know for a fact that you don't emotionally / physically hurt the strangers that you have been with?You are worried about YOU
Not the fact that there is another person whose wishes and preferences YOU disregard for YOUR needs.
Don't you think this might be unhelpful with respect to ever having an equal relationship with another PERSON?> I honestly get better treatment from hookers in the 3rd world than I ever got from my girlfriends in the United States.
Thats because you paid those hookers to humour you.
A good hooker will leave you believing that she liked it.Girlfriends...
Want to see that you respect them as a person and you take their needs and preferences and desires into account.
A good relationship will leave both of you believing that you liked it.
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