Posted by orchid on November 14, 2005, at 6:42:29 [reposted on November 16, 2005, at 21:54:17 | original URL]
In reply to Boundary setting dilemma--Help!, posted by gardenergirl on November 13, 2005, at 22:37:46
I also think you cannot say anything to him about it - either in advance or during the wedding.
Maybe silently pulling back is the best thing. If you have an option to just shake hands, do it by extending your arms. Or if you have to hug, stand to the side and do a side hug. Or just pretend you hurt your legs or tripped and pull away quickly.
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