Posted by allisonross on November 9, 2005, at 8:58:35
In reply to Re: some girls I hate....advice??? » Tamar, posted by Jen Star on November 8, 2005, at 23:37:37
> hi Tamar,
> thanks for the support! Sometimes I just need to rant it all out. I guess I'm not close enough to John to tell him how I really feel about it all, so I just b*8ch about it here.How close do you need to be? LOL The whole vibe with him & the girls is very weird.
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> I like to flirt a bit too, and I think SOME flirting amongst married folks is harmless and fun. But the one girl (who wears very tight tank tops) likes to stand too close even by European standards, and rub her manicured hand up a guy's arm, and giggle into his face, and then whisper something into his ear, and then ask him to get her a drink, and then stroke his arm AGAIN.Well HE is the one who should put a stop to that, and if he doesn't (of course a man would LOVE that, but if he is married, he is being DISRESPECTFUL to his wife; a kind of cheating!)
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> I know this routine because I tried to send eye darts into her hand as it touched my husband's arm. I interceded and put MY arm through HIS arm to signal "off limits", at which point she pointedly rolled her eyes at me behind his back and made a noise through her mouth/teeth at me.DISRESPECT!
Eye darts or looks are useless with these tarts.
At THAT point (I am quite bold, but with class), I would have said: "your behavior is inappropriate and disrespectful.
You need to keep your hands to yourself.
This isn't---the PROM. If you refuse to behave,
I'm not interested in babysitting, and you will have to take your immaturity, ignorance and disrespect
and-- leave."
Then she went over to her other girls and whispered to them, and they all giggled.
Walk over and repeat the above.
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> Then they went up to John and started touching his butt and talking about how nice his butt is, and giggled.Where are you when this is going on? Someone's house?
If so, the owner of the house should say something; how embarrassing to have this going on.
Then they started flirting with another married guy and wondering aloud if they could drop ice-cubes into his pants.
Where is the wife when this is going on? I would turn a hose on those, ahhh...........rhymes with.....hose!
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> Annoying!It's BEYOND annoying; it is DISRESPECT. It should not be allowed. I'd tell my husband that if one of these chickies acts like that with him, and he doesn't put her in her place and stop it, then I (underline the word, I) will step in, and he might be sorry, LOL< LOL!!
> anyway, that was more ranting. I'll stop now. I just wanted to complain about them all here. Thanks for listening!
>and P.S., as I said, you can't (unfortunately) count on guys to say anything, cause they are eating it up, so you women need to put a stop to their disgusting behavior.
There is no reason to allow this disrespect, and that is what it is.
They are getting away with it, because (it seems from the little you have said) no one is saying a word.
Arrghhhh, it makes me angry, and I am not even there., LOL
JenSTar
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