Posted by gardenergirl on November 8, 2005, at 7:11:34
In reply to Re: some girls I hate....advice??? » sleepygirl, posted by Jen Star on November 7, 2005, at 23:40:16
Oh my, that sounds just horrible. I'm so sorry you've been put in that position. You know, when I was in my 20's, I couldn't imagine that 30's and (eek!) approaching 40's could be better. But it is. You know so much more. You are able to reflect on a much deeper level. You've got priorities that are better in line with life (imo). They don't know that yet.
I don't think I would want to go back to my early 20's. Maybe going back knowing what I know now? I don't know. Seems like it's just a part of development...not that we all acted that way, but still. Priorities are different. Getting drunk, hooking up, gossiping, feeling superior...some girls value that. Ick.
I think the separating when the gang goes out is a good idea. Maybe saying something to John about how you feel? Something like, "We like You, John, and we want to be able to spend time with you, without this distraction"? "Pick one and invite her." I don't know.
I feel for you.
gg
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