Posted by Tamar on November 8, 2005, at 19:31:45
In reply to some girls I hate....advice???, posted by Jen Star on November 7, 2005, at 20:08:15
What an annoying situation! I agree with what other people have said... If you can limit ‘John’ to one girl at any occasion she might be more likely to behave more appropriately.
I think the thing I reacted to most strongly was that they flirt with other people's husbands and boyfriends... Now, I enjoy a good flirtation as much as the next pervert, but I think there are standards of decency to be observed... And excessive flirting in front of someone's partner is usually just rude.
And I have to admit I always feel discouraged when I see intelligent men fawning over foolish women who are just toying with them. (But to be fair, women are sometimes easily mesmerised by powerful, charming men.)
I find it hard to believe 'John' is playing hard to get, so I can't understand why he hasn't hooked up with one of them already. Unless they're stringing him along... Honestly, I think you'd be doing him a favour if you told him to pick one or drop all of them.
Tamar
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