Posted by Jen Star on November 8, 2005, at 10:27:32
In reply to Re: some girls I hate....advice??? » Jen Star, posted by gardenergirl on November 8, 2005, at 7:11:34
hi gg, thanks for the advice! I don't mean to pick on them JUST b/c they're in their 20's. I'm sure that if I looked back on myself in my teens & 20's, I'd see lots of stuff that wouldn't "fit" anymore!
I know that when I was single and younger, I did a lot more wild and crazy things, more drinking, etc. And it was all fun, too! :) But somehow I remember being friendly, too, and open to people, and hanging out with friends who were open to more friends.
Or maybe I didn't...I don't know! But the thing is, I was a hugely different person back in my 20's in some respects. And young single people have different fun priorities than married older people. And depending on the nature of each person, sometimes the two just don't mix well, I guess. (Although: I have friend who are much older than I am, and some younger, and it works out just fine!)
The problem with the girls is they are a "three pack" -- all best friends, roommates, etc. The go EVERYWHERE together. If one goes, they ALL go. And I think John probably wouldn't care that they bother me and others...he's interested in hooking up. And I hate to spoil HIS fun, since he seems to be having fun with them. But *I* don't have fun with them. And I wish my hubby would stay away. I guess that's the part that really bothers me. I'd be OK NOT hanging out with the group, but my hubby still wants to, even knowing how much the girls are awful, and even knowing that one of them dissed me behind my back while he was listening. :(
JS
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