Posted by allisonross on November 9, 2005, at 14:22:16
In reply to Re: some girls I hate....advice???/you bet! » Jen Star, posted by rainbowbrite on November 9, 2005, at 9:37:33
Hi, Jen: Sorry you thought my message was "harsh" I was simply venting, because i was resonating with her outrage, and can understand that stuff.
My point was those 'women' were/are being disrespectful, and it needs to be pointed out to them (in a respectful manner).
If I understood correctly, they were guests in someone's home. Their behavior (at the least, was inappropriate).
I try very hard not to criticize, etc......I have an incredible sensitivity to criticism (a childhood of abuse,
followed by 31 years of abusive marriage, and then abuse from my church who kicked me out because i got a divorce).
I am alone now for the 1st time in 31 years (for only 5 months now).
I am sitting here, feeling shame because of that word "harsh", because tears are rolling down my cheeks.
I feel shamed, even saying I feel shame.
None of you know me, but I would/could never do anything to offend or hurt anyone.
I don't think I feel "safe" to post anymore.
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