Posted by TexasChic on November 13, 2005, at 19:13:16
In reply to some girls I hate....advice???, posted by Jen Star on November 7, 2005, at 20:08:15
Okay, I haven't read all the posts because there's 'like', alot them, and I'm fixing to have to go. (Intelligent girls use that word too, we originated it in the 80's). So if I repeat anything. I'm sorry. I just wanted to throw in my 2 cents.
First of all, I would go up to John and say, "Dude, these chics are so-o-o annoying! Do they really have to go 'everywhere' with us?" He can work on getting laid on his own time.
Second, about your husband. Try to imagine if it were 3 hot younger men one of your divorcee friends brought along. They're all pool boys or lifeguards, and have time to do nothing but workout and tan. Now, I'm not talking some frat guys who would be condescending and all, but some cute, boyish guys that think being with an older women is really freaking hot! And because they're young, you can't help thinking things like, "I bet he's like the energizer bunny... "
Your husband would HATE them. You however would probably enjoy the attention although you would never act on it. Its just a boost to the old ego. You'd tell your hubby, "Honey, they're harmless, just ignore them".
Anyway, the moral of that story is, your husband may enjoy the company and attention of these younger women, but its doesn't necessarily mean something bad. Everyone likes to have the ego stroked now and then.
Finally, try not to let the brat pack get under your skin. They're obviously enjoying the fact they are young and getting alot of attention because of it. But seriously, what 20 something girl hangs out with a bunch of 30 and 40 year olds? Why aren't they with guys their own age? They obviously have issues.
Hey, maybe if you get the women together and all hit on them, it may scare them away. Unless of course, it backfires and they're into it. But even then you're outdoing your husband.
-T
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