Posted by sleepygirl on September 27, 2005, at 21:51:54
Hi,
You know I'm engaged, have been for a while now. What really bothers me however is that my fiance and I have sex 1-2 times a year, yes, you read that correctly, that's PER YEAR. He's pretty unresponsive emotionally, physically. It's getting to the point where I crave any physical touch- just casually, not sexually or anything. When I see my friends I look forward to hugging them. I have a coworker who puts her hand on my shoulder without even a thought about it, and it occurred to me today that I really need just the simple physical contact. It's really hurting me, sort of bad for my health I think not to have much warm physical contact, sexually and not sexually.I'm thinking about going to get a massage or something just for the physical contact, but that's CRAZY I think. I'm engaged. I shouldn't have this problem. He is so cold sometimes. It's killing me.
This is why the date is NOT set. I get this question all the time. "When are you getting married?"
Do I really want to sign up for decades more of this? So much of me says - I don't think so.
poster:sleepygirl
thread:560409
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