Posted by Annierose on October 3, 2005, at 16:38:00
In reply to Re: Is that name a permanent change? LOL! » crazy teresa, posted by sleepygirl on September 29, 2005, at 17:38:55
Sleepygirl ...
When you write: "we're pretty distant - it's killing me" there is your answer. That is NOT a way to start a marriage, it's a reason people use to end one. And marriage makes every problem BIGGER. If sex is a problem now, it will be a problem later.
I have been married twice. The first time I knew walking down the aisle it wouldn't work out. Wish I saved myself the pain and expense of a divorce.
Having said that, I know it sounds strong. And this is ultimatley your life. Just weigh the options, think before committing. Keep talking about it in therapy.
Good Luck
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