Posted by Racer on October 8, 2005, at 2:36:26
In reply to physical affection, posted by sleepygirl on September 27, 2005, at 21:51:54
Sorry, someone'sprobably said this already, but I'm too tired to read through all this.
Listen to that littlevoice saying, "Can I stand a lifetime of this?" Listen to it and heed it.
My husband and I had a great sex life -- until we moved in together and then married. Now we're in the once or twice a year catagory, and he's not very cuddly, either. It's terrible for my depression, my anorexia, etc.
By the way, if this really is The One And Only for you in every other way, hie thee to a marriage counselor before deciding to set a date. Why is there so little physical affection between you? Is it fixable?
Good luck.
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