Posted by LadyBug on September 18, 2005, at 10:26:32
In reply to What's the verdict? Did he get it? (nm) » LadyBug, posted by crazy teresa on September 18, 2005, at 2:56:29
I think he's starting to **get it**. The pages I printed out made him aware that he indeed has betrayed me and done wrong. We are at a very difficult place in our marriage now. He took off last night, out of his character, so I figured he decided to go see the 3rd party because he wouldn't answer his cell phone. I was sure he was either with her or heading out for a relapse as a recovering alcoholic/addict. If he was headed out for a replapse I knew we were in major trouble because he would never come home alive. That's just the point of where he would end up.
After he finally called me, yes he was headed out for a relapse and had the strength to change his mind and come back home. That in itself is a miracle.
We have a lot of work to do no matter if we choose to stay married or not. Right now I'm not sure what I want to do, I guess a lot of it depends on what he can bring to the table. If he thinks he can sweep this under a rug and pretend nothing ever happened then our marriage won't survive. Right now it's a daily adventure. I was up till about 3:00 am and so today I am wiped out emotionally.
I will have to babble more later as I'm sure I will need too.
LadyBug
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