Posted by LadyBug on October 1, 2005, at 22:14:11
In reply to Re: My husband gotfired » LadyBug, posted by wildcard on October 1, 2005, at 19:16:26
thanks for responding,
my heart is ripped out of my chest. The fact he was fired for his involment with this girl is a killer. She will now go on with her life, she did't lose her job since she is the one that turned him in. And he deserved it! He blames it all on her!!!! Whatever!!!!!!!
i know I can't move out any time real soon, i don't have the means since I only work part time. Dang, I wish I could go today, that would be good with me. It is hard to be in the same house with a person that has hurt me so deeply. Earlier in the week, I had a bit of hope that we might be able to put things back together. Then yesterday when he called and said he had been fired over the whole situation, that seemed to be the last straw. If he wasn't such a liar, or if he wasn't an addict/alcoholic, I might consider trying to work through things. I know divorce is going to be hard. But I think he's done so many things to me over the years I can't tolerate being with him let alone to be his wife. It's time he suffers the consequences of his sh**, instead of me always fixing things for him. Not this time, I will fix my own life with the love and support of those around me that do care and love me. I have a very supportive family and some very supportive friends. My daughters are awesome too. It's hard to realize many of my life time dreams will never come true. I will have to have new dreams.
He had a relapse with drinking last week and I'm hoping that won't be an issue for now. When I move out, he can do what ever the he** he wants. He will no longer have to lie to me about what he's been doing. He is one SICK dude!!! Sad for him, yes the very core of him is a good person, unfortunatly he has an illness I can't cure, and I didn't cause it.
I'm still down and out and this is one of the hardest things I've ever had to go through. It just doesn't feel good to know that he was involved with someone else. Maybe I'll never know the truth of things and that might be a good thing. Enough is enough.
Thanks for your replies. It helps me to put things out here.
LadyBug
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