Posted by LadyBug on September 28, 2005, at 23:33:22
In reply to My husband was going to have an affair...., posted by LadyBug on September 14, 2005, at 0:02:05
The last month has been really intense between my husband and I. I am low and lower!! I have a hard time trying to deal with the pain of him having feelings for someone else. And last week he had a relapse with drinking. That makes matters worse. He's a mess! Our finances are a mess because of him. I want to leave in many ways, but I know divorce is forever and so much garbage is involved. But I'm not going to allow him to treat me like pond scum. I'm better than that. He can either get his sh** together or I will have to find a way to leave no matter how I have to survive. For now, I'm trying to give him a chance and not push him away because if I do, he will only become frustrated and stop trying all together. This is so hard to be where I am right now. I'm under so much stress it beats me up.
I'm just venting here, but I'm sure some of you understand some of what I'm going through. But this truely is the last straw with me. He needs to make some changes and get back on track or I'm done. I've given him over 20 years of chances, sometimes they are tempory and we get by till the next disaster that he creates.
I'm tired!!!!!!!!
LadyBug
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