Posted by Jazzed on June 26, 2005, at 18:18:58
In reply to Re: Talking erotically, sensually (might trigger some) » jazzed, posted by jay on June 26, 2005, at 17:08:57
> An obvious one...but do you both ever watch xrated movies together?
We have watched, not hard core, esp. since I had SA as a teen, but we have watched the chick flick porno - the ones with a plot. I got turned on, he got somewhat bored.
>Maybe have a little wine or something beforehand...because it sounds like your Hubby needs to become a bit more disinhibited.
This does help somewhat, but still not with the talking. In every other respect he has no trouble, just the verbal.
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> Next, always fun, is getting some great books on a whole range of sex topics...especially get the ones with lots of pics and ideas.Got 'em, we like to look at them together, but it doesn't really do much for our sexual experience. And, this is odd, we do talk about the books, the pics, and what would be fun to try, and we've tried some, BUT it doesn't do anything for him to talk erotically. So, talking ABOUT sex isn't the problem, we do that, it's talking to me that way I guess.
Nothing taboo, since it triggers bad stuff for me.
Thanks Jay!
Jazzy
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