Posted by jay on June 26, 2005, at 17:08:57
In reply to Talking erotically, sensually (might trigger some), posted by jazzed on June 26, 2005, at 9:16:46
OK...I am not a 'love god', heh... but some tips (maybe others have already expressed.). An obvious one...but do you both ever watch xrated movies together? In a way, it sort of forces both to communicate, and is a REALLY nice way to start things off.Maybe have a little wine or something beforehand...because it sounds like your Hubby needs to become a bit more disinhibited.
Next, always fun, is getting some great books on a whole range of sex topics...especially get the ones with lots of pics and ideas. The point being, this may open him up a bit more. I found even books on nice sensual sexual massage can go a long way! Question him...constantly in a playful manner, and he is bound to speak, uh, 'up'...lol
I can think of a few other things...many others actually...not 'bad' things, but maybe a bit of a taboo for you and him. Push the envelope a bit..as long as it remains in both of your comfort zones.
Best wishes,
Jay
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