Posted by Jazzed on June 26, 2005, at 13:33:29
In reply to Re: Talking erotically, sensually (might trigger s, posted by caraher on June 26, 2005, at 12:52:14
> when she has tried to be a bit more verbal it's just plain awkward.
Yeah, I guess you're right caraher. I know if it feels awkward for him, it's going to make him feel self conscious, and that's not what I want.
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> As for the fantasies, just as you don't "name names" to him I think he's understandably reluctant to confess too much detail about his own.These are ppl he knows. I wouldn't want to hurt him, or make him wonder whether I really want them. Not that I'd ever take action, just that I like to fantasize about them. When I brought it, he didn't ask, so I didn't go into it.
>When I first talked about fantasies with my wife it soon became clear that she worried that it wasn't good to be anything other than focused on one's spouse in bed.
I usually don't fantasize about them while I'm in bed with him, it's other times, when I'm alone, and have time to fully develop the fantasy. I guess that's part of why I tend to have a high sex drive, I think about sex a lot.
>if you want to know what happens after the blonde in the car goes after him perhaps you could be the blonde some evening! If that works out perhaps he'll drop some of his reservations about sharing his fantasies with you.
I've suggested this, and maybe one night he will go along. Have to get that convertible first! LOL
JazzyThanks for your thoughts.
Jazzy
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