Posted by university on January 24, 2005, at 14:28:40
In reply to Re: Too bad to stay, too good to leave » University, posted by Susan47 on January 21, 2005, at 13:47:03
This response from Susan:
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You said you love him very, very much ... then you said you don't think you ever really did...so you're confused...but more than that you're really scared if you're honest with how you feel that you'll have to tell him, and then you'll lose him, and if that happens, which of course it probably would because he wants to be loved, too, then you'll be really really depressed and needy afterwards which will be horrible for you and you might end up in ANOTHER not too great relationship because you know there's stuff, (Ssshhh, issues, ssshhhh) you have to deal with before you really can have a healthy fabulous LOVING relationship with a guy and Damn it you're not READY to deal with any of that stuff ....That's my story, anyway, and I'm stickin' to it ...
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Is what, when I read it as a reply to my sincere problem, unsettling, etc. It @!#$% me off, to be honest, because to me, it read as if a total stranger was writing "YOU'RE not ready, damn it! You're confused! etc.Does anyone here understand why I might have felt that way? Geez. I know I said I didn't care about this matter anymore, but after perusing all of the posts in defense of Susan, I just starting thinking my god, am I crazier than I thought, or can nobody here understand why I might've been a bit chuffed???
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thread:445080
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