Posted by Susan47 on January 21, 2005, at 13:47:03
In reply to Too bad to stay, too good to leave, posted by University on January 21, 2005, at 4:11:13
You said you love him very, very much ... then you said you don't think you ever really did...so you're confused...but more than that you're really scared if you're honest with how you feel that you'll have to tell him, and then you'll lose him, and if that happens, which of course it probably would because he wants to be loved, too, then you'll be really really depressed and needy afterwards which will be horrible for you and you might end up in ANOTHER not too great relationship because you know there's stuff, (Ssshhh, issues, ssshhhh) you have to deal with before you really can have a healthy fabulous LOVING relationship with a guy and Damn it you're not READY to deal with any of that stuff ....
That's my story, anyway, and I'm stickin' to it ...
poster:Susan47
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